You know when you’re angry? After you’re lied to and/or betrayed? You know how so often, you end up playing the blame game, and shit just gets worse?
It’s time to stop.
It’s hard as hell, but fighting doesn’t work, right? If you’re past the point of reasoning like two reasonable adults, then quit it with the never-ending vocal vomit, and let your actions speak.
Nobody likes being put on blast (whether the fucker deserves it or not), so continuously reminding the other person of his or her misdeeds will most likely not have the intended effect.
It’s not really the best tactic for resolving a relationship problem.
Focus on yourself, and don’t let your anger, anguish, and pain control you.
Let your pain and anger control you, and you lose.
Be the better person, and let it show through your actions.