We’ve got memories like elephants, and while we might forget why we feel the way we do, the impressions in our hearts created by the happiness and anger and sadness and joy we feel … well, that sticks around.
So, before you act like a jerk, think about the consequences. And if you’re having a hard time letting go, remember that you’re only human . . . and you’re not the only one who has trouble “getting over” the crap that you’ve been through.